Window Washers

Every couple of years Peter and I have the same debate – should we wash the windows or hire somebody? I don’t like the work of the first option, and Peter doesn’t like the expense of the second. Besides, we don’t know anybody to call for service, as you can see below:

This spring we had the same debate but the stakes were a little higher. We are planning a large family reunion at our house, and some of the guests have never been here before. So, when an older teen came to the door to offer the services of his window-cleaning “company,” I was interested. I asked for a pamphlet or a business card and he hesitated, checking his pockets. “Uh, I ran out of them. Sorry.” I told him to bring one back and drop it in our mail box. And that was the last I saw of him.

Peter and I put off the task as long as we could, but finally we began to gather our equipment. It took some hunting to track down the spray nozzle for the hose and the brush with the extendable handle. These tools mean that Peter doesn’t have to use the extension ladder and I don’t have to sit on the bottom step, steadying the ladder while holding my cell phone ready to call 911.

Relieved of this duty, I began to set up for my job; cleaning the inside of the windows. Peter had borrowed my spray bottle of Windex, so I searched for another one in the cleaning supplies cupboard. I found it and a roll of paper towels, and began on the first window. Soon my window was covered with beige spray and tiny granules. On closer inspection, I discovered the reason. This was not Windex – it was plant fertilizer! I reached down for the paper towel roll, but I knocked it off the couch, where it unrolled through the living room, across the dining room, and into the sun room. Things were not going well.

After rolling up the paper towels and finding a bottle of real Windex, I carried on, climbing on and off chairs, spraying and wiping windows, and beginning to dream of my afternoon nap. I stopped for a rest and went to check on Peter. He was not doing much better. His hose nozzle was leaking and he was soaking wet. And the last window he had worked on had a screen instead of a window, so now the outside of the inside window was dripping with dirty water, and there was no way to get at it.

At this point we figured we had done almost half of the windows and we deserved a break. We finished the job in bits and pieces, doing a few windows at a time. It was rewarding when they were all clean and shiny. The smears on the sun room door, made by Venus drooling over the neighbour’s cat, are gone. The birds eating at the bird feeder are now visible from where we eat at the dining room table. And our guests will be able to see our front garden in full bloom as they sit on the bathroom toilet. Mission accomplished.

As for next year? We can no longer deny that we are slowing down. A retired columnist, writing about Joe Biden and aging in the weekend Toronto Star, summed it up when she said it was time for him to take off his “running shoes.” And for us, maybe it’s time to put away the Windex.

Sue

Driving With Mercedes

Peter and I have been driving for over 60 years. So when our daughter asked us to be part of a driving study, for which we would be paid, we thought: “Piece of cake!”

We learned further details of the study. It collected data about how people, seniors in particular, would react to driving fully automated cars. My current car, Ruby, has a lot of automated safety features such as back-up warning, lane change warning, and front-end warning. Although I have not been brave enough to try out the front-end one, the other 2 work just fine. Peter, on the other hand, dislikes driving my car because he says it beeps at him all the time.

We signed up for the study’s 2 sessions. The first one began with a lot of questions about our driving habits. Then we had a chance to try out the driving simulator. We had actually seen this “car” on a UHN tour I wrote about previously (Kite, March 12, 2024), and we were anxious to step inside. I was impressed. It was a Mercedes with comfy seats, leather steering wheel, seat belts, even a large-screen TV! The study assistant sat in the passenger seat and pointed out a couple of other features: an indictor for engaging the automation mode, “but don’t worry about that right now” she said. And a barf bag, “just in case.” In case of what?

Mercedes

Pretty soon I was told to put the car in Drive and follow the green van ahead. The engine came to life and I tried to steady the car in my lane. But the steering was very sensitive and the car quickly swerved too far to the right and then too far to the left. I suddenly knew what the barf bag was for. Then I got too close to the van and had to put on the brakes. But they were not sensitive at all and I was slowing down to a stop, as the van disappeared into the future. I had to step on the gas pedal so I could catch up.

Next we headed towards the higway and the van sped up – to 120. I never drive at 120. But the study assistant said that if I didn’t catch up to the van, the data would be lost! Quickly I develped a lead foot and we caught up. I focused intently, not wanting to steer off the road and embarrass myself in a pretend car. Finally I saw a sign above us that said “Thank you.” The try-out was over. The assistant reminded Peter and me of our appointment for the real test, in 7 days.

For the real test, the car began in automated mode. I had to sit there, with my hands in my lap and my foot off the pedals, as Mercedes took over. One time she oversteered a turn and I quickly grabbed the steering wheel. That was a no-no. Reluctantly, I put my hands back in my lap.Then suddenly there were loud beeps and the large-screen TV became a warning sign: YOU ARE DRIVING! This time, when I grabbed the wheel, I had control again. “Too bad, Mercedes, I am the boss now!”

The test went on for a while with Mercedes and I vying for control. She went up hills; I steered around turns. She drove through a city, and I sped up on the highway. It was like a game, with the competitors taking turns controlling the ice, or the field, or the ROAD, and I was determined to win. Finally the “Thank You” sign appeared and the automated study was over.

I stepped out of Mercedes, feeling victorious. I had hit no curbs. I had caused no virtual accidents. I had not used the barf bag. Take that, Mercedes!

But mostly, Peter and I had provided some data that might be useful in the study of safe driving for seniors.

Sue

The Boating Life

One day on the long weekend, Peter and I had a choice: wash the windows or go boating? Hmmm…

I grew up with a boat. We had a summer cottage on Lake Ontario and my dad bought a boat to go along with it. It was a small runabout with a 35 horse power motor. In those days, that was fast. Until our neighbour got a 50.

My brother inherited that boat and had it for many years. My cousin bought a similar kind of boat when he had a young family. They used it mainly for water skiing. And another cousin and her husband moved up in the boating world and bought a small yacht – with enough room to travel and stay overnight. Being on the water in a boat seems to be in our family genes.

So I was sorry to learn recently that both cousins have decided it’s time to give up their boats and stay on land. They cite rising gas costs and storage issues. But it’s also probably about the loss of energy and stamina as we age. For boat trips, you have to kneel down to untie the boat from the dock, step off the dock and into the seats far below, bend over to check the gas level in the motor, wrench your neck to back out of your boat slip. You basically need Cirque du Soleil training.

In Toronto there are easier options for water travel. You can go to Harbourfront and pay for a sightseeing cruise along the shoreline. You can take a ferry over to the island and have a picnic. You can join one of the many area yacht clubs, make friends, and then ask to borrow their boat. Or you can go to the Boat Show in the winter and tour lots of fancy yachts with their gold faucets in the bathrooms and luxurious sofas in the living area.

But Peter and I have all the options beaten. We have our own kayak waiting for us in the garage.

It’s easy peasy. Peter pulls it down the street propped up on little wheels at the back. Wen we get to the river, we launch it easily on a gently sloping boat ramp. We wear life jackets – for safety and for warmth! I put on my water shoes, walk to the front of the kayak, and shimmy backwards to plop into my seat. Peter steps in from the back as he pushes us off. There is no gas, no steering wheel, no speedometer. As long as we rememer the paddles, we are good to go.

But on Canada Day we ran into an unexpected problem. The river was full of water craft: kayaks like ours, canoes, sea-dos, paddle boards, inflatable dinghies, even small yachts. There were boats parked along both shorelines and several lanes of traffic in between. Drivers kept changing lanes wthout signaling. The oncoming traffic waved their arms frantically. Other drivers suddenly backed up to look at the scenery, or did a U-Turn in the middle of the stream, or just stopped to talk to other boaters. It was confusion. It was chaos. It was a Toronto traffic jam on the Humber River!

But it was still better than washing windows.

Sue

Summer Wardrobe

Two weeks ago, when the heat wave was announced, I quickly packed up my fleece tops and lined pants, and sent them to the basement. Then I started looking through my summer outfits. To all you male readers, don’t tune out yet – I’ll be telling you about Peter’s summer clothes too!

Most of my summer wardrobe is in pretty good shape. Things still fit and none are too badly worn. I went shopping for a couple of items to supplement: a white linen top and a pair of denim capris. I went to Winners first and then, in desperation, to Sherway Gardens. There were NO linen tops, and apparently capris are out of style this year. I could only find long, wide pants. Add an umbrella and I look like Mary Poppins ready to take off. The other option is short shorts which reveal things nobody wants to see on an old lady.

So I did what all the smart young shoppers are doing these days – I went to Amazon. And there they were – capris and linen tops! I don’t really like shopping this way. I prefer to feel the material and try the clothes on. I also don’t like all the excess packaging that Amazon uses: cardboard, plastic and filler that has to be disposed of. And I don’t like seeing all my favourite department stores going bankrupt. I miss all those past shopping experiences with friends when I used to get such great advice. For example: “Oh for heaven’s sake, that looks Terrible on you!” And then we’d go for lunch together.

Peter’s view of clothes, no matter what the season, is very environmentally friendly, (not such a bad idea in this age of conspicuous consumption). If the clothes fit and just have small stains or rips that can only be seen up close, then they are good to go. He used to have two categories: everyday and dress-up. Nowadays, with his love of gardening, the dress-up clothes sometimes bypass the everyday category and go directly to a new one – farmer.

As for accessories, purse sales have changed too. Female executives are buying large bags but the contents are different; make-up and baby toys have been replaced by a laptop and a pair of stiletto heels. Other women are forsaking any kind of purse. They download all their credit cards, driver’s licence and health card onto their phone and stuff it into a pocket. Voila – hands free! On the other hand, there are more men using purses. They buy a fanny pack with a long strap and sling it over their shoulder, or they buy a regular purse and call it a “man bag.” This is Role Reversal at its most obvious.

When it comes to shoes, there is only one choice this season: Slip-Ins. These shoes were Made for older folks like us. No more bending down and tying laces. Just slip into these shoes from a standing position. They are SO comfortable that I wanted to buy out the entire store. But I settled for one pair in a very affable grey. No matter where I go, I meet myself. Everyone is wearing them: on the subway, at the ball game, on walking trails, in the mall, even at fancy restaurants.

All of Peter’s poker buddies wear slip-ins. I have been thinking of buying him a pair too. His dress-up shoes are well past their “best-before” date, his everyday runners are looking tired, and his farmer shoes are, well, farmer shoes. I mentioned my purchase plan to Peter. To my surprise he replied that he already has several pairs of slip-ins. He said he made them himself. When he saw my look of disbelief, he produced two pairs for me to see. Here they are:

Dear readers, you can make your own slip-ins too!

Happy Summer.

Sue

Baby Point

When Peter and I first explored the neighbourhood of our new city home, we were surprised to discover an area called Baby Point. Aside from imagining little crying bodies in diapers, we were stumped. What was this area? Last Sunday we went on a Heritage Toronto tour and found out.

The area above the east banks of the Humber River north of Bloor Street West was first explored by the Seneca tribe as they navigated the Carrying Place trail. The trail led the Indigenous and their furs from northern Ontraio into the waters of the great lake. A big part of the trip was on the Humber River. This river was called lots of other names, including “Leave the Canoe and Go Back” river. The route was treacherous indeed.

In the 1670’s, according to archaeological finds, a village sprang up, likely the result of tired Seneca voyagers leaving their canoes behind and climbing the banks of the river. They built longhouses and settled down. Their village was safe due to the vantage point, and there was lots of food below. Salmon swam down the river in the spring and back up to spawn in the fall. The Seneca tribe named their village Teiaiagon which means “crossing the river.” The village stood until 1805 when the British bought the land from the Mississaugas Of the Credit as part of the Toronto Purchase.

A few years later the British gave 1500 acres of the land to James Baby (pronounced Babby) in a pretty sweet real estate deal. Baby was a member of parliament as a result of his influence in the Family Compact. He called his new estate Baby Point. He and his descendants lived there for almost 100 years. Eventually the home was demolished and the land sold. There are 2 reminders of that era: Baby’s reputation as a slave owner, and a black oak tree believed to be about 200 years old.

The 200-year-old black oak tree stands behind this more recent house

Robert Home Smith bought the land in the early 1900’s and began to develop it into a new concept – a subdivision! He envisioned a neighbourhood of elegance: winding streets surrounded by stately trees, single detached homes, made of stone or brick, set back from the streets. The entrance to this neighbourhood was marked by gates, still standing at the corner of Baby Point Road and Jane Street. Smith also dedicated 100 acres of the land along the river to be developed as a public park. And he began building what is now known as the Old Mill Hotel and Restaurant.

Baby Point Gates

Some of the edicts of the Home Smith subdivision have become bylaws and the area is still filled with mature trees and winding streets. The community is grounded at the centre by a social athletic club for residents. The only question about the future of this lovely community is the name: Baby Point. Just like Egerton Ryerson and Henry Dundas, James Baby’s history (as a slave owner) is following him. It may not be long before the name Baby Point is eradicated. Home Smith Point might be a good replacement.

Sue

The Home Smith Estate still standing on Jane St.

Gods On Display

On Friday Peter and I discovered the perfect activity for a summer day. We suffered great hardship to get this story. OK, it wasn’t quite as bad as the explorers of the 1500’s, but it was close: we forgot our water bottles and our umbrellas.

The venue is at the CNE grounds, accessible by car, off the Lakeshore Road across from Ontario Place. Or, like us, you can take public transit. The GO train has a stop at the exhibition grounds. There is construction on the platform, so the only exit is at the west end of the station, which is of course the opposite end from where we exited the train. And there were ominous dark clouds gathering overhead.

We had some clues as to the actual spot we wanted to visit, The Garden Of the Greek Gods, near the bandshell and the rose garden. After asking several groundskeepers, we found the place. It’s a lovely park, across from the lake and near a fountain surrounded by fragrant roses in all shades of pinks and reds. There are benches too!

The park is filled with 20 limestone sculptures by E. B. Cox, 1914-2003, an internationally-known sculptor. He created these figures in the 1960’s and they were on display at the CNE for several years, until their location unfortunately became the back yard of the MuZik Nightclub, a somewhat sleazy club where even shootings have taken place. Cox’s daughter battled with CNE personnel to have the sculptures relocated. Finally, in 2022, they were moved.

The stately Greek Gods seem to enjoy their new location; there are smiles on many of their limestone faces. We were met by Hercules, the tallest of the figures. Following the path, we found the snake-headed Medusa, Pan with his reed pipes, the bird-women Harpies and many other famous Gods and Goddesses. I especially loved the irony of Narcissus because how could anybody so misshapen contine to admire his reflection?

About this time the dark clouds let loose and we ran for any covered space we could find. It was a hidden service door behind a restaurant, and it had a bench. And a cardboard box! We chatted about the sculptures and their lovely setting as we waited for the rain to let up. Then we checked out the restaurant. It was not open, not even for drinks.

By this time we were wet and thirsty. The Gods didn’t seem to be smiling on us, so we headed back towards the GO station, splashing through deep puddles and hopping over muddy ditches. And we found the grounds of the CNE strange, almost eerie, without crowds of people eating cotton candy, carrying their prize stuffies, and lining up for rides.

But we might go back. It would be nice to smell the roses on a sunny day. The godly statues deserve a closer look. And the restaurant serves Italian food.

Sue

The Oura

Just over a week ago we got an exciting notice in our mailbox. Instead of the usual flyers and bills, there was something interesting to read. It was a notification of a filming that was going to happen on our street.

Peter’s first thoughts were of Sophia Loren, but I reminded him that she is 88 and not likely to be travelling this far for work. Then he focused on action-packed chases through our back yard, the actors nearly stepping on his zucchini and tomato plants. Or maybe a moose snorting along the sidewalk. A Hollywood aura; the perfect topic for a blog post. Yea!

On Monday when we looked out the window, there were no moose, but the street was lined with orange cones. Then, in the pouring rain, the trucks began to arrive. There were hundreds, well at least 25. I grabbed my phone and tried to saunter down the street, looking disinterested. I noticed a truck set up as an office, another one for wardrobe changes, and a food truck with a serving table, for food breaks. But I didn’t see much action.

The next day I decided that I needed to act more like a reporter so I could dig up the story for you, dear readers. I saw a guy standing at the food truck having a coffee. He was quite sexy and movie star-ish. I approached him, my hand on a pen in my pocket, ready for autographs. In my best reporter voice I asked him what his role was. He told me he was with wardrobe. Darn.

The next people I saw were a young couple – maybe the romantic leads in the movie? No. They said they were “gophers.”Undaunted, I asked what the movie was about. They replied, “Oh, it’s just a commercial.” Double Darn! But wait… who was the commercial’s sponsor? Maybe a big name like Molson’s or Tim Horton’s … with free samples? Actually the couple wasn’t sure. It might be a wellness product like a Fitbit or something.

I moved on to 2 business-looking men. Could they be discussing million-dollar contracts? No, they weren’t. They were discussing the number of complaints they had already had from our neighbours about the nuisance the filming was causing. The only real nuisance I could see was the occasional car driving down our street, which had to slow down. Did these neighbours have no sense of adventure?

I was getting annoyed. Where was the story here? What was I going to write about for the next blog post?

I went home and started researching on my laptop. First I discovered that this film company, radioaktivefilm, is based in Kyiv, Ukraine. Since their beginning in 1993 they have done business in Poland, Lithuania, and Georgia, and so far the original studio has not been bombed by Russia. They have produced commercials for Aleve, VRBO, Jack Daniels, and been involved in the production of one feature film, Chernobyl, 2019. Then Toronto’s “Hollywood North” reputation led them here for this commercial.

But what was the commercial? I discovered the word ‘oura’ at the bottom of the mailbox flyer. Maybe this was a clue. After more searching, I found it – a ring. It comes in several styles. And it has a purpose: as a “smart ring.” It keeps track of more than 20 biometrics: heart rate, calories, stress levels, activity, sleep habits and more. The best feature seems to be that you can wear it 24/7. No need to take it off when you sleep or shower.

As older adults we might like to have a health device that we didn’t misplace on a regular basis, like we do with our cell phone or keys. But I have to tell you that the buttons the ring uses for setting or changing screens are Tiny. We definitely need our glasses to manipulate them. And no arthritis in our fingers either. Besides, the ring style is very modern. Somehow the Oura does not create the right aura for older folks.

Meanwhile, we are still waiting for the blockbuster movie to set up on our street.

Sue

Doggie Day Care

For a short time I was thinking about going back to work. This job as writer is very low-paying. And these days, with high inflation…well you know how it is.

It started a few weeks ago when a friend asked me to dog-sit for her while she and her husband went to an appointment. I have spent time with this small dog on a few occasions and he is a cute little guy, and very playful. His name is Dash, and he loves to cuddle. So I said yes.

Dash met me at the door and began dashing around, jumping up and down, licking my glasses, stealing my outdoor shoes before I was able to hide them. After the parents left we spent some time playing with Mr. Squishy, (who is a toy – just to clarify), and snuggling on the couch. Pretty soon Dash yawned and flopped down beside me, asleep in seconds. I checked my email messages. I started to read a novel I had brought. I drank my coffee. Dash snored on happily. And I thought – this could be a pretty good second career for an old person.

Dash

As readers know, I have had lots of experience with dogs. I look after Venus quite often when her parents go on vacation. She is old and obliging, and Peter even lets her sleep in our bedroom. I have looked after another son’s dog, Tobie, a few times. He is old too and crawls under the couch to sleep, realizing whe he wakes up, that he can’t crawl back out. Fortunately, I have enough arm muscles left to hoist up one end of the couch and let him out.

Venus. (Tobie was under the couch, unavailable for photos).

So I decided to research my new possible career. First of all, I would need some new toys. Our old dog balls and chew toys are beyond repair. A visit to Petsmart revealed that dog toys are not cheap these days. And there are lots of health warnings. Certain kinds of plastic are toxic if chewed. The popular squeaky toys are a choking hazard if the squeaker is swallowed. And of course there is the decor. Any toys must be turquoise to match my new sun room.

I’d need to get some new dog treats too. Our leftover treats are stale. I know this because Peter tried one by mistake, thinking it was a new kind of cookie for him, and he spat it out in the garbage – not even good enough for the worms in his compost bin! In my dog-treat research I discovered homemade dog-treat recipes. Well for heavens sake, I don’t even bake treats for people! I was starting to get cold feet. This new job might be more than I could handle.

Then a third son asked if I would look after their family dog, Finn, for a week while the family went on vacation. I wanted to help. But I hesitated. Finn is not old. He is not even middle-aged. He has passed the stage of eating kitchen tables, but he is still full of energy. And he is big. Twice a day he goes for long walks with his owner. Sometimes the owner rides a bike as Finn trots alongside. Sometimes Finn races ahead while the biker tries to keep up.

I hesitated some more. I began to imagine myself being pulled, dragged along the road, into ditches, through potholes, over speed bumps, whimpering “Stop! please!!. stop!!!” OK maybe I am exaggerating just a bit. Sorry Finn.

But I am definitely giving up my plans for a second career. If you are looking for a dog-sitter, you might consider Oro Dog Companion, a robot that throws balls all morning, opens up a food tray at lunch, and sings little lullabies so doggie can have an afternoon nap. Just like me.

Sue

Finn, catching a few winks when he thinks nobody’s looking.

The Grandparents Visit New York

Peter and I were invited to New York for a visit recently. It was not our first time in The Big Apple, but there are alwways things to see and do in NYC, even for older people like us.

Other old people we saw – at the MET

Being a stock market follower, Peter wanted to visit his favourite place, the Financial District. We sauntered along Wall St, admiring the stately buildings and the church wedged in among them; rather convenient for all the Crypto Kings and Bernie Madoffs who decide to seek forgiveness. Trinity Church, built in 1697 in the Gothic style, is also well-known for one of its famous graves, that of Alexander Hamilton.

Peter was desperate to find the Charging Bull, created in remembrance of Black Monday, 1987, on the stock market. Designed in 1989 by an Italian sculptor, it signifies a “bull market” the dream of every trader. The artist illegally delivered the bull to the stock exchange under cover of darkness, and it was discovered and transferred by police the next day, to a tiny park where it still resides. It’s a popular photo spot, especially the rear end.

It’s hard to ignore the architecture of New York. The Empire State Building was one of the first skyscrapers and remains an icon to this day, although it is now overshadowed by many taller office towers and hotels. On our visit, we saw the inside of the UN building, easily accessible to the public on most days by showing some photo ID and getting a free pass. The main floor and the lower level with the requisite gift shop are open to wanderers, and there are guided tours on the other levels.

What would a report on NYC be without some photos of the fashion scene? We saw this trendy outfit in a take-out breakfast place:

And this selection of golf wear in Trump Tower:

How about this dashing suit worn by Henry VIII in the MET:

But the actual purpose of our visit was the highlight. We were invited to Grandparents’ Day at our grandson, Ben’s, school. We walked Ben to school, a distance of several blocks, filled with other relatives walking their kids to school too. New York is definitely a walking place and we did our share.

The first item on the agenda was breakfast – a lovely assortment of pastries, fruit, juices and coffee. Then we were escorted to the auditorium to watch a performance of the grade 2’s singing, dancing and playing instruments. Ben did a bang-up job on the tambourine. Next we went to the gym where we got to play a version of Rock Paper Scissors with the grandsons who were trying to win so that grandparents would lose our balance and fall over. Fortunately we caught on just in time.

The best part was last: we visited the grade 2 classroom and filled out worksheets together. The topic was “Our Life In Grade 2.” Ben was off to the races with his answers: what food he likes best, what sports he plays, who his friends are. Peter and I had a bit of a struggle. After all, these answers are buried back 70 years for us.

Comparing our answers was a revelation. Our favourite foods were hot dogs and pasta. Ben’s are sushi and ramen. Our friends: Janie in small-town Ontario for me, and Adolpho in Italy for Peter. As for Ben living in NYC? He named Kabir, Macks, and Conrad Black, (honest!).

After we said good-bye to Ben, we spent the rest of that last day riding the ferry on the Hudson River – we had accumulated enough steps to keep our doctors happy and enough memories to last until our next visit.

Sue

Empire State Building dwarfed by towers and hotels.

Five Years Later

Today, Tuesday May 14, marks the 5th anniversary of my first post on Seventy In the City. So I thught I would write about some highlights and experiences that we have had together.

Looking back over those last 250 or so posts, I see a few tupos, I mean typos. I must explain that I am a fast reader and tend to skip ahead, reading only what I think should be on the page. Readers have been very kind not to point out all these errors. And I have found a way to correct most of them before they get published, by reading word for word, with a magnifying glass. There have also been some errors in content. The most obvious was when I wrote that the Blue Jays won the World Series in the 1970’s. Of course, the Rogers Centre wasn’t even built then!

Reading back through the posts, I notice a definite change in tone during the pandemic. The topics I wrote about were pretty banal – countless stories about decorating the garage for parties, and walking walking walking. I made enough mentions of Sunnyland, Peter’s favourite fruit and vegetable market, that one reader actually drove to our neighbourhood to see it.

Over the years I have tried my best not to be too political, but I did write 2 posts; one about Trump and another about Ford. It was the least I could do. Recently Peter and I ran into another politician working the room at a Liberal party event. There was only hand-shaking and photos, no political message to pass on, but it was fun to meet him in person.

Most places that Peter and I have visited on our Friday adventures have been worthwhile, but about a year ago I wrote about The Well, an up-and-coming lifestye village near Spadina and Wellington, and I told readers it was not worth visiting. Well, we did go back recently and found a big change. There is now a large shopping area surrounded by buildings, (but no roof) where a number of interesting boutique stores and restaurants are popping up. The big draw is Arcadia Earth, an “immersive multi-sensory journey” about our planet. It’s very high tech and you need to take somebody young with you to help navigate.

One of the posts that got a big response was the one about losing my wedding ring. Several people wrote to ask what I was wishing for my ring if I could not have it back. I hoped for a special person to find it: a single mom with 2 kids and no job, an immigrant unable to find housing, a disabled person living on government subsidy. I just hope that an addict didn’t smoke or drink it. There are so many needy people in this large metropolis.

Another widely-read post was the one about the book club meeting in my house, where a guest fell on a tiny step and sprained her ankle badly. I am glad to say she has recovered, although it did take time. We had a family council meeting afterwards, where we heard suggestions about dealing with this nasty step: installing a hospital ramp, ripping up the entire floor and laying a new one, 3 centimeters higher, or the most practical: just close the da– door and direct guests to enter the sun room through the dining room, where the step is visible.

The most common question I hear by far is “Where do you get your ideas?” I read the Toronto Star, I follow Blog TO, and I browse through local magazines. But most of my ideas come from wandering about, going on adventures with Peter, taking strolls in the neighbourhood. In short – just by being out in the world where things are always happening.

As for carrying on with this blog, one thing is sure: when I turn 80, then I definitely can’t be writing Seventy In the City. Unitl then, I sincerely thank you, dear readers, for your ongoing support.

Sue

PS The photo under the title was taken on May 14, 2019