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Sue

In 2008 Peter and I met a group of people on a hiking trip to Corfu Greece. We have been holding a yearly reunion ever since. Our numbers have dwindled and our bodies are older, but our Corfu spirit still lives on!

Last week we went to a new spot – Rockwood Conservation Area, north of Guelph. It is one of the prettiest places for hiking that we have seen. OK, it’s not really hiking any more – its more of a walk. But it’s a beautiful one. The trail passes through a forest filled with natural surprises. It follows the Eramosa River as the river travels along from the north, down picturesque waterfalls, past gorges. It widens into a body of water that resembles a small lake, before it continues on towards Guelph.

The walking trail passes steep rockfaces with persistent clumps of greenery peeking out from every crevice. It curves around deep potholes, dug by tumbling boulders during the ice age. It rises to a lookout, where we spotted kayaks and canoes stopped while their paddlers had a rest in the sun. The trail ends at some caves, perfect for picture-taking.

After about 4 kilometers and lots of stops for pictures, we drove to the town of Rockford for lunch at Chompin’ At the Bit. The horse-theme was evident on the walls – with art work, and on the menu – with burger choices like the Thoroughbred Burger or the Clydesdale. The food was lip smackin’ good! But we needed something else, like maybe dessert…

So we wandered along the main street to the Bearded Baristas. Two young entrepreneurial women (without beards) served coffee and tea, and some delectable sweets. They chose their name to accompany the Christmas-themed gifts available for purchase. The gift shop/coffee shop is made of up small rooms, each filled with intimate groups of chairs. We sat to enjoy our drinks and admire the decor. I spotted the perfect gift for a man I know – a huge bar of soap called MEN DON’T STINK.

Finally it was afternoon and our day was coming to a close. But Peter suggested we needed one more stop – a visit to Peter’s Produce and Wine Bar, aka our back yard. The seating was precarious, since our swing still suffers from having no seat. But we managed to spend a couple more hours reminiscing about all our past reunions. With several of us working on it, we came up with a list of 16 places we have visited together; not only in southern Ontario, but also North Bay, Quebec, the Adirondacks. Our walks grow shorter, but the memory-making carries on.

Sue

When our grandchildren come to visit, I go to some length to provide foods they like. Then they arrive and announce that their favourites have changed and they no longer like chocolate milk or whatever it is that I have bought in quantity. So, when Ben came to visit recently, I had a new plan. I told him we were going to the grocery store together.

At first he wasn’t too excited about this option. But I lured him there with promises of Marvel hero cards being given out at Loblaws stores. He put down his ipad immediately and joined me in the car. As we drove there, Ben explained that the cards are given out in packs: one pack for each $25 worth of groceries we bought. I assured him we could get at least 1 pack.

Our first section was produce. We approached the fresh corn bin and grabbed 4 cobs. Then Ben saw the sign – 59 cents each. “That’s only about 2 dollars.” he sighed. “We’ll Never get to $25!” So I led him to the meat section. Ben’s favourite part of the meal is meat. We studied the pork loins and the chicken. Then we saw the lamb chops. It turns out that Ben and I both love lamb chops and, just like that, we were already into the second Marvel card pack.

This plan worked well. The food Ben chose was mostly consumed, and we only sent him home with his mushy white bread.

As we “grow up,” Peter and I find our diet changing. We try to eat less white bread, and more greens, especially in the summer when they are so handy in Peter’s back garden. We cut down on red meat, (except for the occasional lamb chops), and we eat more fish. As for sweets, they are an addiction for us, so I try not to buy them. Sometimes I can’t resist my favourite cookies so, after I buy them, I hide them in my desk drawer. Don’t tell Peter.

We also find ourselves cutting corners in the kitchen, eating more simply. Instead of roasting a chicken, we’ll buy one at COSTCO. Instead of making lasagna, we’ll go to Bruno’s. Instead of cooking vegetables, we’ll eat them in a salad. It’s safer that way.

After all, the kitchen is a challenging place sometimes and we don’t want to spend too much time there. Filling the salt shaker upside down while forgetting to cover the holes in the top means a lot of salt goes on the floor. Losing track of a recipe means stirring in the forgotten ingredients after the casserole is cooked. Dropping a paring knife in the potato peelings means the knife gets lost in the compost bin.

To work in the kitchen we definitely have to keep up with our exercises and sudoku puzzles. We need to be prepared: to lift those heavy glass bowls from the top shelf, stir that cake batter for at least 3 minutes, bend over to load the dishwasher, and remember to turn off the oven. Or else, take Ben to a restaurant.

Sue

Some off Peter’s back yard produce

To Market To Buy a Fat Pig...

Well we didn’t, but we could have. We missed the hog auction by only an hour!

Last week we visited the Keady Market, near Southampton. This farmers’ market, which will celebrate its 125th anniversary next year, is a place of endless bounty. The produce stalls are filled to overflowing with fresh tomatoes, corn, beans, and peaches. Peter found a cauliflower that was so big it would have taken up half the back seat of the car. We bypassed the bakery stands, with 2 exceptions: an olive focaccia bread and a blueberry strudel. Yummm! There were also meats, jams, and condiments for sale, and lots of free samples too.

Keady Market does not just sell produce. We were tempted by clothes, belts, hats, shoes and a variety of wellness oils and creams, mostly home-made. We pulled ourselves away from all sorts of kitchen gadgets and demonstrations. I stopped at a used book stand and picked up a novel I have wanted to read, for only $5.

But the most interesting item of all was a commercial-sized popping machine. The popper person stirred the kernels round and round, added a pitcher of salt and sugar, stirred some more, then pulled down his visor and told visitors to stand back! The popcorn exploded into the bin and all over the ground. The popcorn from the bin was sold in family-sized bags, too big for us. The stuff on the ground was fed to the livestock, but no movies were included.

After a few days in Southampton, eating our way through our purchases, we had to return to Toronto.

Home Again Home Again Jiggity Jig...

Unfortunately our trip was not so jiggity. Most of the drive took us through acres of corn blowing in the breeze, and fields of cows chewing contentedly. Our thoughts were disturbed only by a meadow of windmills adding energy to our power grid. Bur gradually the peaceful 2-lane road became a 4-lane highway and then ramped onto the 401.

As we drove along the left lane of the ramp, we came up to a construction vehicle in the right lane. It was one we didn’t recognize, but it had lots of protrusions partially blocking our lane. So we slowed down a bit, keeping away from the protrusions. The driver behind us, in a big black war machine, was not impressed. He honked loudly and repeatedly.

Then the ramp became the 401 and the construction vehicle moved over to the new lane on his right. Within seconds, the bully in the war machine moved to the now-empty lane and barreled past us. Then he moved back into our lane, right in front of us, and slammed on his brakes.

I shrieked. Peter the driver, who was obviously much calmer, hit the brakes too, and veered onto the left shoulder. It was a good thing we didn’t have that cauliflower in the back seat! As we looked around and realized we were safe, the bully went screaming ahead. He was far too fast for me to get a photo for you, dear readers. Sorry.

Sue

When you sit down in your favourite chair to wait for a TV show to start or a guest to arrive or your wife to bring you tea, what do you think about? I can probably guess that your mind wanders backwards.

As we age, our past becomes more relevant, clearer, more interesting! So Peter and I embarked on a series of walks around Toronto this summer to review our city’s heritage. Presented by Heritage Toronto, and sponsored by the TD Bank, these walks take guests to all sort of hidden heritage gems. The walks are usually about 1-2 kilometers and last 1-2 hours. There are lots of stops along the way and one can usually find low walls or benches to sit on while the presenter is talking.

I wrote to you on June 18th about our first walk. We learned that Baby Point began its life as an Indigenous settlement in the 1600’s, then morphed into one of the first subdivisions in Toronto in the early 1900’s, along with another first – a roundabout! We have since gone on more of these walks, all of them interesting glimpses into Toronto’s past.

Then we went with another couple on the Rail Lands Walking Tour. The husband of the other couple is a train aficionado, but sadly we didn’t see even one train! What we saw were the places where railroad tracks, stations, maintenance facilities, and offices used to be. We were astounded to learn that the Rogers Centre, the Royal York Hotel, the Metro Convention Center, Roy Thomson Hall, and many intersections and parking lots were once part of the “ribbon of steel” which wove its way through our downtown. And we saw the monument dedicated to the thousands of Chinese immigrants who lost their lives while building this railroad.

Our next walk was called Yonge Street Architecture. We started at College Park, erected by the Eaton family as the first Toronto department store. We visited the actual College park which was looking a little forlorn with very little grass, but it has a different life in the winter when it becomes a skating trail. We meandered through many parkettes and saw architectural treasures and public art works. It was an interesting glimpse of life behind the facade of Yonge St.

Then we walked to Old City Hall, designed by architect E J Lennox. His accomplishments include Casa Loma and over 70 other buildings in Toronto. City Hall incurred a cost overrun on construction, (that would never happen today!) so City Council refused to install a plaque in Lennox’s honour. As payback, he had his name engraved on blocks on the building’s exterior. If you look under the eaves of the upper floor, you can see these letters: E J LENNOX ARCHITECT 1899.

For our last walk, we chose a tour of Hidden Histories at U of T. We’ve wandered around the campus many times, both as adult students and as tourists, and we wanted to get the inside scoop. Our tour happened to be scheduled on a rainy day, which is quite common this summer, but this rainy day included thunder and lightning so we opted for tea at home instead.

There are lots of other tours to choose from, including Greektown, The Danforth, Little India, and one that sound ah… different: Garbageland Cycling Tour, in case you want to see the city’s trash. The cost per tour is under $10 per person, pretty reasonable for a chance to get some exercise and learn about Toronto’s past.

Sue

Peter is a man of many skills and talents: athletics, gardening, finance, cooking, window-washing, kayaking, to name just a few. But electrician is not on the list.

After we moved into our new home, actually before we even signed the papers for our new home, I despaired over the dining room chandelier. It was utilitarian and ugly. But buying a new one would be easy compared to having it installed. So I put it off and put it off. Until one day… I was out with my decorator friend when we happened to wander into a lighting store and she almost shouted at me: “THAT is the chandelier you should have!” I made the purchase.

i had a few sleepless nights trying to figure out how to get it from the box to the ceiling. My son James overheard me at some point and offered to install it. I had forgotten that his dad had studied electricity and had passed this knowledge on to his son. On the appointed day, James arrived on time, with the correct tools, and went to work. He did a professional job. The price was right too – a free lunch.

A couple of days ago a living room floor lamp, one matching 2 table lamps, stopped working. We replaced it with an old lamp that had been sent to the basement. But it didn’t match the others and was an unusual style. I certainly couldn’t invite anyone to visit with this abomination in the living room. So I invited myself to have lunch with James at his place, about an hour’s drive away. I snuck the broken lamp into my trunk.

James good-naturedly got out his tools again and studied the lamp. He found the offending um…part thing.. which we needed to replace. We ordered it on Amazon and he told me that, when the doohickey arrived, he would visit me and do the rewiring. This seemed like a lot of driving for just one lamp, so I took a bold step and asked: “Can you show me how to do it, and maybe I can fix it by myself? Isn’t it just about black and red wires matching up?”

James shook his head. “Oh Mom, it’s pretty hard to figure out. It’s not black and red; it’s gold and silver. I’d better do it.” I went home with the broken lamp, and a broken spirit. Ok sorry. Too dramatic.

When the new thingamajig (actually 4 of the same new thingamajigs in one package) arrived a couple of days later, I was determined to fix the lamp. Peter told me I’d better work on it outside in case something exploded. Really! No support from the men in my life at all! I deliberately set up my work station in the living room, but close to a window just in case.

Work station. The broken floor lamp is on the left.

In no time at all I had the gold and silver wires matched up and the lamp re-assembled. Ta Dah!

I still have 3 brand new thingamabobs left. So, if you break one, I can easily fix it for you.

Sue

During the last couple of weeks I’ve been mostly stuck at home, seated by the front window, unable to go out. The suspense has been riveting.

Our neighbours across the street when we moved in were a couple in their 90’s, with a single daughter looking after them. We rarely saw them, except when the daughter escorted them into the car and off to a doctor’s appointment, or when an ambulance siren ended in the driveway. Occasionally the daughter shovelled the driveway or, even less occasionally, cut the grass. Then, in the fall of 2022, the parents died and the daughter moved out. The house became eerily quiet; there were no lights on and the tall grass was covered with snow.

Six months later things began to happen. Construction crews came into the scene. A dumpster was delivered and soon replaced by another and another. Garden tools, toilets, and outdoor furniture lined the boulevard. A rusty car was towed from the driveway. New windows were installed. The house was painted. We were delighted – new neighbours were on the way.

Then abruptly, everythig stopped. There were no moving vans, or “for sale” signs. The grass started growing again and the new windows began to get dusty. We speculated about what was going on. Had the owners run out of money to finish the inside? Were interest rates too high for a quick sale? Had the daughter fought with the other relatives and demanded a larger share of the profit?

Meanwhile the house beside us had undergone a similar transformation. The old house that had been next door when we moved in had been demolished and replaced by a huge modern behemoth. It was just beginning to look like a house when the construction crews disappeared. The siding was not finished. There was no garage. And the front yard was several meters high with weeds. Then, about 2 years ago, the new family moved in.

They were a lovely couple with 3 small children. They apologized for the look of their house, and promised to plant grass very soon. We waited and waited. They built a playhouse for the kids, but no sign of a garage. The tools, tires, wheelbarrow, and garbage cans all waited on the front patio. The weeds grew higher and higher. Was grass seed so expensive due to inflation? Was there no contractor who could build a simple garage in front of a house?

The unappealing view from our front window was: a deserted house across the street and an unfinished one beside us. We were embarrassed to invite visitors.

Two weeks ago things began to change. A strange car pulled into the driveway across the street and, in a few hours, a “for sale” sign appeared on the front lawn. We rushed to look it up on google and found out the price was 2.5 million! The next day I sauntered over to the Open House, trying to look like an interested buyer. Admit it, you would have done the same thing.

On my way back across the street to report to Peter, I met the owner of the unfinished house next door. He was headed on a similar mission. But he stopped to update me on his own house. He said that he was going to finish the garage in the upcoming week and then he would seed the front lawn. I was skeptical, but a few days later bull dozers and steel workers and electricians appeared. They broke up the concrete patio floor and lined the cavity down to the basement with steel beams. This was not your usual garage – it was a car elevator designed to transport expensive cars from the front of the house to the basement storage room.

Now, as I sit by the window, I find myself evaluating potential wealthy neighbours across the street, watching the construction of an elevator for classic cars next door, and wondering which of our friends we will invite to our exclusive neighbourhood.

Sue

A fun outing during the good weather is to attend a theatre production. There are lots of summer festivals around Ontario, but the 2 best-known have made themselves easily available for older folks who don’t like to drive.

Both the Shakespeare Festival in Stratford and the Shaw Festival in Niagara now have express bus service. The busses depart and arrive at convenient times and a reasonable cost. The seats are comfy, candy is passed around during the trip, and there is a bathroom at the back! You have no expensive visits to the gas station and no stressful driving on the QEW or the 401. Just sit back and enjoy the gossip from the couple behind. Oops I mean the scenery. Or the nap!

I made such a visit to Stratford in early July and met my daughter Jennifer there for an afternoon show. She lives in Orangeville so she drove there directly, and I took the bus from Union Station. We met at a local patio for lunch. We shared an appetizer, a main course, sticky toffee pudding for dessert and lots of talking in between. When the patrons began to arrive at the theatre across the street, we paid our bill and joined them.

You may have seen the show La Cage Aux Folles, which was first staged on Broadway in 1983, followed by a Robin Williams film, The Bird Cage. In this production the costumes are outstanding, partly because of the eye-catching quick changes, but also becanse the ruffles, feathers, and sequins are worn by burly men. We grow to love the modern family – 2 men, and their adult son who wants them to lie about their sexual identities. The “wife” does try, with exaggerated costuming and hilarious results. Jen and I laughed out loud on several occasions, imagining our own husbands, both burly men, flirting and prancing in these sexy feminine outfits.

Encouraged by my positive comments, Peter agreed to join me the next time, on a trip to the Shaw Festival in Niagara. This was a slightly different trip because it was the day of the big rain storm in Toronto. The torrential downpour began as soon as we had boarded the bus. After our driver had rounded the corner at Hamilton, the rain slowed down and by the time we were in Niagara, it had stopped. We were able to enjoy lunch at the Niagara Golf Club with a view of the river, and then we walked down the main street to the theatre while eating ice cream cones.

This show, My Fair Lady, echoes the theme of La Cage Aux Folles: identity. A lower class flower girl has an opportunity to try life as part of the upper class, by changing her accent as well as her costume. Unlike the wife in La Cage, this character does a good job with her identity change, but then what? Her acting is brilliant and we began to feel great empathy for her predicament. The ending left us speculating as we went to board the bus for home.

It was good to have something to think about because the return bus had broken down. We waited for over an hour for a replacement to appear. Then the driver changed his identity into Mario Andretti in order to make up time. When we arrived at Union Station, it was flooded and there was more waiting for the GO train to take us home. When we did get home it was dark and the power was out.

Now dear readers, this is not meant to discourage you! Both shows were excellent and the bus service, under normal circumstances, is efficient and smooth. As climate change continues to take hold of the world, we need to be flexible. So, as you head out to the bus, just be sure to pack an umbrella and some reading material.

Sue

Last summer Peter and I attended a large family reunion at another family’s home. It was so much fun that we impulsively offered to host the “second annual” reunion at our place this year. I didn’t start worrying until about May.

In June things were coming together. We figured out general seating arrangements for either sun or rain. We planned a rough outline of a menu: punch for the kids and wine or beer for the adults, Costco pre-cooked chicken shish-ke-babs that could be heated in the oven, and an ice cream buffet for dessert; finishing off with coffee or tea. We hoped that our guests would contribute salads and appetizers. It all sounded like it would work out perfectly. We started to relax.

In early July, the LCBO announced their strike plans. Peter and I assessed our supplies and tried to figure out what drink would be most popular. Before the party, the negotiators were still bargaining, so we went to the grocery store where we were able to top up on beer and wine. A crisis was averted. Surely nothing else would go wrong.

The day of the party was gorgeous – sun and a light breeze. The clouds were wispy and the humidity was low. We worked all morning sweeping the patio and setting up all the chairs and tables. We arranged serving dishes, cutlery and plates. We filled the coffee maker and the sugar bowls. We checked on toilet paper. We even had time for a quick nap. We figured we had thought of everything.

The guests began to arrive and mingle. The appetizers and salads appeared. The young kids played together with the babysitter we had hired. The older kids played soccer. The adults shared a year’s worth of gossip. All was going well.

Then the power went off.

Peter and I had an emergency meeting where we chose one lucky son, who happened to be standing beside the BBQ. He fired it up to heat the chicken, which he did in batches while he warmed up the bread on a top rack at the same time. We lined the salads up on the kitchen counter under a window, so people could see well enough to serve themselves.

Meanwhile we kept the freezer door closed tightly so the ice cream wouldn’t melt too much. As for the coffee: people were going to have to make do with wine and beer instead. Then a guest mentioned that, at the first reunion, everybody ended the evening with shooters. We quickly produced a bottle of Limoncello and some shooter glasses. The coffee was mostly forgotten. Another crisis was averted.

But there was more to come.

As we sat talking and sipping, there was a sudden loud “rrriiippp” and we looked towards the swing – where a mom and her daughter had been sitting. Where were they now? They and the mattress had fallen through a hole in the canvas seat and were sitting on the concrete patio blocks below. Several guests rushed to pull them up. We didn’t think to take a picture at the time but we saw that the victims were laughing and there was no bood anywhere in sight. So we all went back to drinking our Limoncello.

But by this time Peter and I were feeling a bit nervous. What else was in store for us? We didn’t have to wait long to find out. As we sat down again to finish the bottle and our conversation, we were joined by buzzing and blood-sucking sounds. Some unwelcome guests had decided to join the party. We had not thought of everything after all – we had forgotten the bug spray.

Sue

The swing seat waiting for repairs.