Here it is early June and already Peter needs a new hobby. For almost 2 months he has tended and nurtured the little seedling babies and toddlers in his vegetable garden. But now they are growing into restless teens, anxious to get on with life in their own way. They are demanding too: for water, fertilizer, weeding. Sometimes they even ignore his directives and grow through the fence, or up the wrong pole, or into the next row with another vegetable family.
Peter needs something else to distract him. Two summers ago he tried lawn bowling. He had won 2 free memberships to a nearby club at a silent auction, and he wanted to see what the game was like. He desperately tried to get me to go with him. Every Tuesday evening he would ask me: ” What are you going to do all by yourself while I am gone?” Silently I answered: “I am going to take control of the TV remote!”
I almost lost the lawn bowling battle when Peter took me as a guest to the closing BBQ in late August. He had won the club championship and was the guest of honour. I met all the other members who were quite friendly and encouraged me to join the following summer. I smiled politely but managed to avoid answering as I kept my mouth full of their free burgers.
Last summer we were busy travelling – to cottages and Newfoundland. I figured I was saved from lawn bowling. But this spring Peter brought up the idea of using his second free membership to join lawn bowling again. He wasn’t very enthusiastic; he said he didn’t find the game challenging enough. Then. when he searched for the free membership coupon, he couldn’t find it! Well that was that. Until…
At a recent Blue Jays game the giveaway was a Pickleball paddle. Peter is always interested in anything free and he asked me about the game. I told him what I knew: “It’s tennis for oldies. And you don’t have to wear white.” It seemed like a perfect match. We went to the Jays game early, but not early enough. The paddles had all been given away. Peter spent the next half hour searching under seats and in washrooms for a paddle that had been left behind. But there were none. “People must really like this game!” he thought.
I did a little research for him and found out that the game was created by an American family in 1965. The kids were bored with badminton so their mom challenged them to make up a new game. Using the badminton net, some practice golf balls, and a few leftover paddles from table tennis, they figured out a game. Their mom, so the story goes, called it Pickleball after a rowing term where the leftover rowers crew a boat called the pickle boat.
Then our curling club announced that they had turned the ice rink into a court for the summer – a Pickleball court! Peter signed up for the introductory session – lessons followed by a few practice games. He put on some old shorts and a tee-shirt and set out. A couple of hours later, he came home beaming. Pickleball was a hit. He signed up for a league right away,
Now I’m not saying this game is a forever thing. Peter hasn’t read any Pickleball magazines, or bought any new equipment, and he doesn’t even know if there is Pickleball on TV. But I am hopeful. It would be a change from gardening for him, and a chance to get my hands on the TV remote again for me.
Sue

The perfect Fathers’ Day gift….





































